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Date: 28 November 2006 19:22:39
One of the hardest things I have trouble with is the need to be kind and humble to others. Sometimes this is really easy to do but at others it would be easier to move Everest on a skateboard.
I have real trouble dealing with inDUHviduals and dweebs; I can't seem to get to grips with people who don't do what they should do. It is especialy difficult when you are dealing with a person in a position of authority who never does what you expect them to do as part of their work. This becomes even more difficult when dealing with someone who's "calling" is to act as a leader and confidant to others.
How do you deal with someone who believes that they are extremely busy and hard working when the evidence does not back this up? They are extremely disorganised and this affects the way in which they deal with others. As time goes on you begin to become more and more disillusioned with the way they do things.
There comes a time when you ask whether or not you can carry on working with them. For me that time is drawing nearer and nearer. Does the person really have the "calling" to lead or not? I can't see into their hearts but I'm beginning to doubt it.
The trouble is that others don't deal with the person as closely but those that do slowly become more and more concerned. Things that should be done aren't and time is wasted on other things. When this is pointed out they become indignant and accuse you of undermining them.