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Date: 24 June 2004 17:52:28
I like this business of only working half the week. It's definitely the way to stay sane. The money aspect is still an unknown quantity (and seems to manifest itself in a desire to spend spend spend) but what is money compared to the peace of mind of not only myself, but also the boys and my father? I like being stress free. I intend to talk to the doctor after the weekend about reducing the anti-depressants so that I can do it while the weather's good rather than as the darker days and longer nights begin to make their presence felt. I have been nagged into seeing the doctor about my rather black-and-blue-looking foot too - especially as I had to give up before the end of aquafit this afternoon as I was feeling rather battered. (Well, that was my excuse and I'm sticking to it ;) )
The good news is that Dad is now seriously considering buying an electric mobility buggy. I am delighted. He would probably never have given in to our hint-dropping but talking to a friend who has one has really inspired him to explore the possibility while the weather's good. He's had some advice for another medical problem too, which now means he needs my help every evening for half an hour, but in general is able to manage the problem more effectively and feel more confident too. It's worth spending the extra time helping out - although a bit of a pain when I accidentally forget and go to bed instead. It looks like the next medical treatment he's going to be having will be an op to remove an ingrowing toenail - slightly more serious than it sounds because of his diabetes. My sisters and I are discussing how to organise the summer holidays so that Dad will not be alone while we go on holiday and so we will not have to feel guilty or concerned about him. It's great having such support from them.
This morning I was able to take Dad and his friend to the Priory - somewhere they used to go every Thursday when Dad was driving, and which they really missed. It's good that it ties in so well with my aquafit. M and I even had time for our usual cup of coffee and.. er.. umm... doughnut *blush* before driving off across country to collect them and arriving home just at the right time to collect Smudgelet from school too. Now Tiddles is fast asleep in preparation for being allowed to watch the f**tb*ll match tonight, while Smudgelet is in the bath taking advantage of the fact he has the whole bath to himself and can have bubble bath in. I would hate you to think that I have promoted this idea as a real treat in order to get an hour to myself and peace from the Smudgelet. I mean, the thought was never further from my mind!
Now, should I do us a healthy tea, do you think, or could I get away with chocolate spread sandwiches?