Handing stuff over

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Date: 14 December 2004 23:34:07

I took all of his stuff over yesterday (including his Christmas present which I thought he should have considering I bought it for him).

We got alot of emotional stuff dealt with, I think we both felt better after crying about it all and talking in a civilised matter about things.

I did feel incredibly guilty after our talk though, I just don't think I can take him back at the moment after everything we have been through in the last week and he that wasn't the response he was after. I understand that he has had a chance to think about things now but I feel that we have both given each other 'second' chances in our relationship and that it is just all a bit late now. I am not sure that people can change as much as they would like.

It's interesting how men and women reacte in different ways. I have told quite a few people because it helps me cope with the situation. I guess I do this partly for the support and partly so that I don't get asked about where he is. On the other hand, men tend to keep their emotions bottle up inside them. Probably an over-generalisation but that has been my experience.

I hope he finds the peace he needs from finally talking to his friends.