Who is the better person?

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Date: 22 September 2005 03:17:45

My boyfriend's ex-girlfriend (J) just sent me an email.

It's quite a lengthy email telling me that she was nervous around me while we were doing Hildegard and that we both did well considering. She also said appreciated that I made the effort to talk to her that day in the bathroom. Down a bit further, it acknowledges that I am probably 'healing' my boyfriend after what happened between the two of them. She says that he looks happy and that maybe I am better for him.

I can't really transcribe the email or its feeling but I do appreciate that she made the effort to do this. I sent an email back (and despite her asking how I feel about her, I put on my 'nice' hat). What happened between them really shouldn't affect how I feel about her.....

She suggested meeting me for 'coffee' which I don't think is such a good idea. We will see... I don't think we are going to be 'bosom buddies'.