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Date: 07 November 2007 17:47:28
...is a pain in the a**e.
Actually, I do not believe this. (Well, not ALL the time, if I'm brutally honest.) However, it shows that I am not the only one to have possibly misunderstood the proverb - 'A friend in need is a friend indeed'.
Until recently, I read this as meaning that a friend who is in need is going to stick pretty close, as they could really do with the help. Whilst this is often true, I have come to think that it is not what the saying is trying to - er - say. I now understand this as meaning that someone who proves themself to be your friend when you are in need is a true friend (indeed!)
That conclusion is slightly less cynical and much more noble. I think I prefer it.