Categories: just-life
Date: 04 November 2005 15:41:30
In itself, this is nothing too unusual..... but over the last couple of days I've been asked by more people than normal for advice on things. Now I, like the little old lady sitting at the back of the church, am quite happy to give advice, especially when asked for it!!!
Though, one thing I am not fully understanding, is why I still get asked for my advice on relationships..... I'm certainly not complaining, it's just that it's not like I've got the best track record when it comes to relationships. On the flip side it means I can live my life vicariously* and I shan't complain about that.
That, and depending on the situation, the advice generally goes along the lines that they should look at what they want or expect from their relationship, which is good advice I think. Or it can be along the lines of "tell him how you feel, or how will he know" because in all fairness, guys really don't know if a girl likes them. We are no good at picking up "hints" and "suggestions". It would almost be better to get a friend to go "my friend fancies you" in that very Year 9 kinda way.......because guys never mature from Year 9 until they find themselve in the midst of a serious relationship. Which explains the whole commitment phobia.......immature, immature, immature, whoa!!!! What's going on here!!!!!
That and I know that the end of these conversations finish off with them trying to give me advice back, which is always the same, and I know that I should take it........ but I never do. It really is a case of "Do what I say, but not what I do!!!"
To finish, I don't know if anyone regulary checks to see how others find their blogs. I like to, sometimes it's quite funny....... one that turned up today was searching "Thong Along Inc" on Mexican Google....... and guess what, it'll translate this page to Spanish...... so those who want to read Bimbling Along in Spanish..... well, here it is!!!!
Vicariously* - experiencing indirectly,